There was a first "hearing" scheduled. DAHHHH I have no transportation I can't get to the dumb court & I am not schlepping on a bus that I can get stranded if I miss the only other bus back to the middle of no where thanks. I also did not want to have to ask my elderly (sorry ladies) to drive me it was humiliating.
Criminals have more rights than disabled abused American women.
It's funny because a family member started a company that allows lawyers to appear by phone for hearings so I knew it was possible to appear by phone.
I was determined to get divorced from my couch. Again, every single document required to divorce us was in my divorce response. All Judge Murphy had to do was address all my divorce request issues.
The witch doctor told me "Just don't say anything" ha. Even Madalyn Stone the abuse lady had said "I need to get you an advocate he's going to put you in jail", but alas I never heard from her again & advocate....ha, no such thing for me in this case.
Look I can't help I am an older loud tattooed punk with a bad attitude at this point.
I don't yell I am just loud in general but when i'm upset the pitch of my voice as all our voices do gets higher & squeakier...and my voice carries, especially in a big empty old courthouse & over the phone into a recording device.
Ask anyone who knows me. I've had this awful voice my entire life. People in LA don't even blink at my loud foul mouth, colored hair or tattoos. Bum fuck Oregon on the other hand treated me as if I am from outer space. I had really been watching my bad language having the witch doctor as my neighbor. I know it bothered her & I really make an effort not to cuss in front of her. I can't help I LOVE SAYING & TYPING FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCKITY FUCK FUCK.
I asked my neightbor the other Rosemary to drive me to Rick at H & R Block to ask him if I would be taxed on the alimony & $10K 'property settlement' McGeehee did so ex ex would save money as I got bent over and dicked up the ass. Rick told me 'of course you will be taxed'. McGeehee called and made it seem as if again, I was crazy and Rick did not say exactly what he told me that YES I would be taxed on the money. Dahhhhh then no. Ex ex will have to cover the taxes that ex ex text he would cover as ex ex refused to pay McGeehee to redo the settlement. If I went with the Judges 'ruling' I was going to be homeless so I had no choice but to sign the settlement under total duress, I made clear to everyone. Ok so Judge Murphy signed the settlement on January, 25, 2017 per Leah's email.
I got a call from a title company that ex ex was refinancing. Again, like I have any to enforce it. Ahhhh yes. that was when Legal Aid 'accidentally' gave me an appointment only to deny me legal assistance, again. Kill my new neighbor came with me to the appointment to witness. I asked them again to please put it in writing. They did.
One morning as I sat on my love seat reading a flower catalog & my ex ex was leaving for work, he apparently thought it was a good idea to throw a big metal plug at the end of a cord at my face. He said afterwards on video as I grabbed my phone in a panic & hit RECORD he was 'playing' with me. I retreated back to the kitchen where he followed me as I repeated "I don't feel safe with you right now, don't touch me, kiss me or come near me" he just continued to come at me saying "I was playing with you". Excuse me, I was NOT playing I was sitting on my love seat reading. Throwing plugs at your wifes' face is NOT PLAYING. IT IS NOT LOVE. IT IS ABUSE.
Look I have previous abuse issues. Another ex threw me across the room and broke my back. I've been beaten. So the whack in the face was more than enough abuse for ME. I no longer trusted or felt safe with ex ex.
Agencies that somehow collect money to refer the public to assistance we the people need can't have some one in these offices make sure the numbers they refer us to are working numbers & indeed provide the assistance they say they do so we don't get "We're sorry this number is no longer in service" or "We're so sorry we can't help you" during our crisis?
I was given a Pro Bono number. Disconnected. Go ahead dial it.
Clearly this is a cover up & incompetence & EVERY ONE in office this past year needs to be VOTED OUT & replaced in both Salem, Oregon & throughout the entire country.
I was in no way shape or form resisting I was attempting to make sure all my evidence that was sprawled on the desk for me to present whenever it was finally my turn to do so, which never came, was put into the record & that I got my cell phone that I had sitting on the desk recording this farce divorce trial.
Before I figured out how to make a site which was many years later GODADDY had THEIR OWN ADS ON THE DOMAINS I OWNED but alas I was never paid for their ads they placed on my domains nor was I paid for any sales that resulted from those ads if any.
Now that I can no longer afford my domains (since the next minutiae news story #5) GODADDY gets to profit off my 'GREAT IDEAS' now those domains are more valuable from my tweeting? & WHERE IS MY DATA?
Why not try a world absent of gun violence what's the worst that can happen MORE PEACE LESS DEATH BY GUN VIOLENCE?
Having had horrible experiences with police in past abuse situations I called Charleen Gibb at NW senior & disability as I had contacted her about Linn County Senior & Disability telling me to break the law & commit fraud after Wells Fargo denied me a car loan because "Disability money can't be garnished & what if you get divorced? You wouldn't be able to make the car payment" What? Disabled people can't get loans? Wells Fargo later went on to do exactly what they told me was illegal for them to do, they held my disability.
**this is FRAUD
FAIR & EQUITABLE MY GOD DAMN ASS & YES I DID PROVIDE THE USD FORM JUDGE MURPHY JUST RETURNED IT TWICE WITH ALL MY EVIDENCE THAT WAS NEVER COUNTED EVEN THOUGH IT WAS IN COURT TWICE.
He had left the house upon our return home from the "I unlove you" breakfast. While we were out he kept saying "Are you sure you don't want to go to the market?" I responded "you just told me you hired a lawyer to unlove me so NO I DO NOT WANT TO GO TO THE GOD DAMN MARKET'. At Target a lady said "Hello how are you today?" I responded, "He just told me he paid a lawyer to un love me" she responded back "Been there done that, sorry hon." We get home. He went into our room & he removed the safe & his weapons. There was no argument. He was carrying things to his truck & then he simply drove away & left me with no money, no food & no car.
Had America had a computer system that keeps track of felonies ex ex may have been in jail & never would have found me again. I learned that not only do Federal & State computers not communicate but there is no system to track these things state to state so Clackamas Oregon didn't know ex ex had been in jail for armed robbery & not supposed to have a gun.
** Shit today is October 4, 2018 & I must have tweeted not written it here. Kavanaugh did his rant. During his rant he pulls out his calendar that he states 'he had written & crossed out doctor appointments on if they changed". NO ONE GAVE KAVANAUGH THE THIRD DEGREE ABOUT HOW HE GOT TO HIS GOD DAMN DOCTOR APPOINTMENTS AS JUDGE MURPHY DID TO ME.
So during my brief marriage where my ex said 'do what you want with your disability money' which I did, was to purchase domains for all the 'GREAT IDEAS' I have so I could build a business from nothing by using twitter as my advertising as I have no money. If other people made money from clicks & selling click data so could I, right? yeah no.
In August of 2017, four months after moving into my new apartment & after my divorce ordeal the rubber stuff around the fridge came loose. I emailed management to request maintenance.
They sent an appliance company to come fix it.
NOW PRESS MY COOKIES
Maybe THIS TIME Charleen from NW Senior & Disability would DO SOME THING? nope. I also filed the sexual harassment form with Section 8 housing & have never even received acknowledgment they received it or were doing anything about it. I WAS NOT CALLING POLICE LOOK WHAT HAS HAPPENED WHEN I'VE DONE THAT. I didTELL though.
It was the fourth or the day before kill & I were discussing the holiday and she told me no companies don't have to pay holiday pay. HUH? I obviously had great bosses & had NEVER had a fast food or retail job because I refused to wear a polyester uniform. Honestly I was SHOCKED. that I can remember which is questionable i always got paid holiday pay on the federal holidays. So I also asked american people in my neighborhood.
I was hysterical. Hysterical and in crisis on top of hormonal. I had had a second hysterectomy just months before the whack in the face as I kept my ovaries the first time the year before & fibroids & cysts came back so I was yes hormonal, my PTSD was triggered & there was no one to assist me during this time of major crisis. I had been hung up on by Joel Corchran in Jeff Merkleys office because he did not like my "upset hysterical voice" several times. I called every single number I could think to call to help to no avail. The worst is when a government number gives you referrals to disconnected phone numbers.
Madalyn brought the Linn County Police when I agreed to show the videos. One they could have cared less....they never even looked at them. The officer told me the video of him showing exactly how he whacked me in the face was "not abuse enough". My fear of how police treated me during previous abuse issues all flooded back as I threw them all out of my home. I'll never forget him saying "he can talk to his grand daughter how ever he wants" when he saw the video of me in tears in the car & her yelling "goompa you have time out".
This is a very long story I will continue to update & continue as I refuse to let ANY ONE SHUT ME UP OR FORCE ME TO SPEAK EVER AGAIN. I am typing my story so what happened to me in Linn County Oregon NEVER HAPPENES TO ANOTHER PERSON EVER AGAIN.
At this point the ex ex husband whacking me in the face & being mean is less of an issue for me as I am far better off without him, it is however EVERYTHING that happened after the whack that has been even more traumatic. When unconstitutional happens to you in one the place in America you thought had to be fair & just in court.....well, that you NEVER EVER GET OVER. I will NEVER EVER be the same.
When mom died my daughter had called ex ex looking for me. She was on her way to visit me while she was on the west coast. I got up that Saturday morning & because I had a rental car because I was going to meet her in Portland I decided I'd run into town. After getting into the rental I realized I didn't have my phone & I thought eh.....the only person who could call is my daughter & I'll call her back in an hour when I get back & I didn't go back in the house to get it. I decided to go putz through Grocery Outlet while I was in Stayton, it was Saturday morning. I get home go straight to my phone which I KNEW RIGHT AWAY SOME THING WAS VERY VERY WRONG as there were an entire screen full of missed calls.
Um HELLO, these WERE hazardous conditions. TV news said "DO NOT DRIVE" & HELLO I AM PERMANETLY DISABLED. My eye was leaking. I knew I needed a dumb doctor note. THANKS FOR FUCKING NOTHING DR GILBERTS & I made his cookies. grrrrrrrrrrr HE NEVER EVEN RETURNED MY CALLS. Health NO CARE in America today. Oh just wait when I start writing my minutiae news doctor stories my Aunt Sandi wants me to tell & I will Aunt Sandi.
Interesting in 1997 ex ex got another felony gun charge just before I was dropped in a malfunctioning elevator that left me disabled both mentally & physically. I learned the elevator lawyers had contacted my ex ex to get him to say bad things about me so he was aware I had been in this horrific elevator accident years & years before he found me online and moved my daughter & I to Oregon. I had no idea they did this in lawsuits. I NEVER would have settled even though I just wanted it over at the time.
This was a response from McGeehee about my discovery requests from looking up online "what do I ask for in an Oregon Divorce for discovery" after "what is discovery". It shows my response notes I made as I read it upon receipt in a rage.
This is transcribed from the voicemail McGeehee left me while I was dealing with my dead mom I would post for you to hear if I could figure out how to post it like videos.
On the morning of June 26th, 2016 on the way to my favorite breakfast place I am now boycotting over guns he told me he hired a lawyer to un love me.
ON OUR WAY TO BREAKIE.
I wanted a 2002 Ford Thunderbird for my 50th birthday as I would only drive on the rare occasion I went to town. I also did not wish to be stranded in Lyons or have to use the truck which meant driving early in the morning to take him to work in the dark then picking him up if I needed to go somewhere. Ex ex had been saying he was going to buy me a car for years. Everyone got one but me.
This is why all of US need enforcement of current gun laws on the books & 'OPEN CARRY' NEEDS TO BE ABOLISHED or if you are going to carry a hand gun in public YOU MUST HAVE A PERMIT THAT YOU LEGALLY CAN OWN A GUN & HAVE NOT BEEN DISHONORABLY DISCHARGES OR HAVE PREVIOUS FELONIES & THAT YOU HAVE TAKEN ACTIVE SHOOTER TRAINING & KNOW HOW TO USE THE GUN SO WE THE REST OF THE PUBLIC CAN FEEL SAFE.
Shouldn't American Labor Law at bare bare bare minimum ensure ALL AMERICAN WORKERS INCLUDING WAITRESSES, INDEPENDENT CONTRACTORS, FAST FOOD WORKERS, UNIONS, NON UNION, WOMENS SOCCAR PLAYERS, STRIPPERS ALL AMERICAN WORKERS BE PAID ON ALL AMERICAN FEDERAL HOLIDAYS EVEN IF THE OFFICE IS CLOSED ON THE HOLIDAY & ALL AMERICAN WORKERS WHO WORK ON FEDERAL HOLIDAYS BE PAID DOUBLE TIME or WHY BOTHER HAVING LABOR LAWS OR FEDERAL HOLIDAYS?
**CONTAMINATED DRINKING WATER
I never broke anything that belonged to him on purpose, at this point I didn't care enough plus I am too old. I did however spray paint 'wife abuser" on the 'free boat' during my crisis time. Didn't make me feel any better but I found amusing, fucking stupid 'free' boat. Plus if I was going to destroy his junk that I was with him when he bought most of it from Goodwill, I WOULD HAVE PUT EVERYTHING I MEAN EVERYTHING IN THE DUMB FREE BOAT MOVED IT TO THE DRIVEWAY OR THE NEIGHBORS BURN PILE AND SET IT ON FIRE. ESPECIALLY THAT RIDICULOUS HIDEOUS BROWN 1970'S COUCH HE MADE ME HELP HIM DRAG INTO HIS PLACE. His rental from Silverton where he moved from on Brown Street that I used the rent & utility amounts from his bank statements to request as what I would require to LIVE.
Judge Murphy obviously could care less about not only my 'disorganized paperwork' that was my PROOF OF MY LIFE but ME AS A HUMAN BEING WITH REAL LIFE ISSUES THAT NEEDED TO BE ADDRESSED DURING MY DIVORCE & TIME OF EXTREME CRISISES PLURAL. I did not COUNT. I printed all the texts, all the evidence to show what I was going to say in court to prove my case. All for naught.
american companies should pay $1000 4th BONUS *PENALTY & labor law should require at bare minimum pay American employess federal holiday pay & double time for workers who work holidays
Once we were in Oregon awhile & the family situation was not working I got my daughter out of his house & we moved to an apartment. We were still together with a few breaks but for the most part together.
My name finally came up for section 8 & I had a cute studio in Silverton I could afford so it was a huge decision to move back in with him. I would be giving up my affordable place to live & a program I waited 7 years to be accepted for. I called housing to ask "What if I get married & it doesn't work out? Housing responded I'd have to get back on the waiting list & start over. He bought the house in January. I was there the night we looked at the house. He said come stay & see how you & lucky cat like it.
It began with a whack in the face...wait no it began with him being mean to me. No wait, it began in Hollywood.
Our grand daughter yelled at him in the car as & I was in tears, "Goompa you have time out. You don't talk to Wosemary like that." When a five year old knows better than a grown up.....as they say "from the mouths of babes".
This is another issue Charleen from NW Senior & Disability said she would "look into" after I told her my neighbor, a senior was also denied Legal Aid with the same reason & I recently found out my other neighbor who does hit the Legal Aid Jackpot, she is a woman was abused and has developmentally challenged kids and she too was denied Legal Aid. Charleen told me that legal aid money is supposed to be put aside for seniors & disabled people however from all the people I know that were recently denied that totally is NOT happening. That & the investigation report from Linn County Abuse to date I still have not received yet requested several times. Hell I never heard BOO from Madalyn Stone EVER AGAIN.
Weed along with TV, Lucky, a home, toilet paper & credit were my biggest divorce issues I was glad a judge was going to have to make decisions on, why I included all of this in my divorce. I wanted to be the divorce case that set precedents.
I was physically ill for months, no this STILL MAKES ME PHYSICALLY ILL EVEN AS I WRITE THIS. For real puking physically ill. I thought I was going to die. I WILL NEVER BE THE SAME EVER AGAIN.
There are at several moments during our relationship that had I have listened to my 'inside' voice or not forgotten events that since have flashed in my brain this is one. Ex ex and I were in his truck driving through Silverton where we both lived down the block from each other before his buying the house & us moving to lyons then re marrying. We were driving right in front of the bank where ex ex's other ex wife works, Chase & there was a kitten in the middle of the street. I said 'stop' jumped out & saved lucky who was half the size of my hand. His nose was all fucked up I thought he had a tumor. Ex ex drove to the park in silverton where the strawberry shortcake event is and said 'dump the cat'. If you know me, you know I especially at this point love critters more than humans. I got his nose cleaned up and the fleas he was covered in off him.
I would go to the witch doctors through our neighbor gate & make her get on the phone to hear what I was being told by Belshe at the court so I had a witness.
dedicated to every politician, newspaper, lawyer, JUDGE MURPHY, referral number, NW senior & disability, Linn county adult protection, person who has hung up on me, legal aid, referral & the OSB, police, Linn County Police, every government agency, the ACLU, Linn County Jail & their horrendous staff, Disability Rights Oregon & every one who DID NO THING.
I shall as I have had to just handle this & tell my stories by myself.
this is also dedicated to EVERY SINGLE AMERICAN FIGHTING THEIR OWN FIGHT AGAINST DISCRIMINATION, CIVIL RIGHTS & OR AMERICANS WITH DISABILITIES ACT VIOLATIONS & FOR EQUAL PROTECTION & RIGHTS UNDER THE LAW.
I KNOW I AM NOT ALONE.
What I was told in that voicemail never happened. McGeehee never sent the papers. Another note here. YES my understanding from both ex ex & McGeehee was that Judge Murphy just had to sign the paper saying ex ex could take the money out of his 401K to deposit into my account or hand to me in cash in a cute new purse. That is what they BOTH TOLD & TYPED ME. Um totally NOT what happened.
Judge Murphy had even said the wrong court date during the second hearing. He said "November 13th". Um it was the 16th Judge Murphy. Oh the boys can make mistakes as no matter what I did I was both chastised & denied. Oh and when Judge Murphy needed to postpone for other trials that was fine. My dead mom he wouldn't postpone for. Real fair.
The section 8 housing application the first time I applied had the question "DO YOU USE MEDICAL MARIJUANA" with two boxes, YES or NO. I later called housing & asked "What if you mark YES" the lady told me "Then we deny the application because it is federally illegal." Having the question even ON THE FORM WAS A VIOLATION OF HIPPA PRIVACY as is "management" telling US we can't use our 'medicine' now also 'recreationally legal' in Oregon. You can't ask me what medicines I use & I don't have to tell you. HIPPA PRIVACY. What next I can't take diabetes, heart, birth control if I needed it penis meds?
Um HELLO I am PERMANETLY DISABLED. There is no such thing as "temporary disability" in MY case. So yes I have a "long term disability" court. DAHHHHHHH.
The girl collecting water samples at Detroit Lake in the video states samples were being Fed Ex'd daily to labs out of state. I was of course furious. WHY WHEN SALEM KNEW THIS WOULD HAPPEN AGAIN DID WE NOT BUILD AN IN STATE LAB TO ANALYZE WATER SAMPLES? So I posed this question to the City of Salem who tweeted at me on my twitter a few weeks ago. Today I got this response.
GODADDY HAS RESOLD THE DOMAIN THEY INFORMED ME WAS COVERED BY POSSIBLE TRADEMARK INFRINGEMENT SO COULD NOT BE SOLD. AGAIN, ALONG WITH ALL THE OTHER SITES THAT HAVE POSSIBLE TRADEMARK INFRINGEMENT THEY SOLD ME.
What did he expect the result to be when he threw a big hard plug at the end of a cord at my face other than to hit me in face?
Today is 7/10/2019. There is a big stink about healthcare & the gutting of the affordable care act even though BOTH DOCTORS & INSURANCE COMPANIES & MEDICARE & AARP ALL HAVE ALREADY BEEN TURNING PEOPLE AWAY BASED ON CONDITIONS & ILLNESSES. NO ONE HAS CARED TO DATE? I rest my pre existing illness & condition discrimination that has happened more than once WITH A WITNESS A GOVERNMENT AGENCY against medicare, aarp, united healthcare, weller, wvp. . I REST MY FUCKING DISCRIMINATION CASES. CONTACT ME TO SETTLE OR JUST SEND YOUR SETTLEMENT OFFER CHECK YOU HAVE MY ADDRESS & I'LL DECIDE IF IT IS ENOUGH TO DEPOSIT.
it's 8.4.19 & if you don't follow my twitter then you didn't know I fucking ate. geese my friends were freaking out then shootings & I couldn't leave my little cookie even by accident so I fucking ate even though I feel great. I did over 4 days and had convinced myself I could do 2 weeks....every one would have freaked and I don't want to upset my old broad little gang cookie giggle. the witch doctor said 'who would check on me?' awwwwww. I walked this morning had a caprese salad well ate a tomato with basil and I bite of left mozz in the fridge...…..ordered meds but debating taking them again as I feel better without them and would rather try to be healthy with natural stuff vs pharmaceutical and that require no doctoring just a trip to the health place so I should get a prescription card that I can use to purchase medical remedies I WANT TO TAKE NOT WHAT YOU WANT TO TELL ME TO TAKE JUST BECAUSE. REMIND ME NOT TO ANNOUNCE ANY FUTURE HUNGER RELIGIOUS STRIKES FOR JUSTICE THEN NO ONE CAN FREAK FUCKING OUT BUT ME.
It is june 17th, 2019. A few weeks ago on 90 day fiancé one of the men who married a girl from another country went to a lawyer about getting divorced. During the episode I along with the rest of the audience learned that NON CITIZEN IMMIGRANT WIVES HAVE MORE RIGHT TO FINANCIAL SUPPORT IN AMERICA THAN AMERICAN SPOUSES. People applying for K-1 visas that marry the spouse must COMMIT TO 10 YEARS OF FINANCIAL SUPPORT for the non citizen in process spouse no matter the length of marriage. SHOULDN'T AMERICAN SPOUSES ALSO BE ENTITLED TO A MINIMUM OF 10 YEARS FINANCIAL SUPPORT?
my divorce story of being denied due process to even present this case, my case
I immediately started looking up algae blooms then cyanotoxins online.
Now the water alert sent was far from adequate. I learned from the internet that boiling the contaminated water would make the toxins even worse & filtered water was not ok to drink as even filters would not stop the cyanotoxins.
I had had an upset stomach all week & had a doctor appointment so I had just had blood drawn for A1C & cholesterol so I called the lab and asked them to run my blood for cyanotoxins. The response mentioned Dr. Karen Landers of Marion County Health Department that the labs supervisor spoke with who said "there are currently no available tests or special treatments for HAB-associated illnesses and tell your doctor.
**sexual harassment NOT in the workplace
& STILL NOT BELIEVED when I told AGAIN, with evidence.
Again, POT IS & REMAINS A HUGE LIFE ISSUE FOR ME. Ex ex drove. He was the one who kept me nice & stoned 24/7. Ex ex obviously preferred a docile Rosemary. Ex ex on the other hand just got paranoid & couldn't drive stoned.
I repeatedly told ex ex "you shouldn't be smoking pot or drinking YOU WORK." He bought $400-$600 in weed monthly for US.
Um, I am disabled with health & pain issues & do not work nor drive so it is ok for me to smoke 'medical' weed 24/7, um ex ex is an ELECTRICIAN WHO DOES A VERY DANGEROUS JOB IN SALEM AT A MAJOR POTATO CHIP MAKER
Lord Belshe told the witch doctor & I over the phone that a motion was just a request in writing & that they did not have to printed or typed. My handwriting was fine I did not have to print them. Judge Murphy continuously would tell me my motions were not done properly even though I was told by Belshe they were fine. I WONDER HOW AMERICAN COURT MANAGED BEFORE COMPUTERS & PRINTERS?
During my no speaking & sleeping in the other bedroom time he had told me he was no longer feeding me. Later in court he said "She became obsessed with making money" as if there is some thing wrong with a woman wanting to start a company again? especially after her husband says he's no longer feeding you or the birds. He had told me "you can use your disability money on whatever you want" when he wanted me to move to the house he purchased in the country. I did on flowers, grandkids & starting a business. This was when he was wooing me again.
Judge Murphy chastised me through the entire divorce process for not doing law "right". Yet the ONE PAPER McGeehee, ex ex's REAL lawyer turned into to court while I was present WAS ON THE WRONG FORM. THE REAL LAWYER BEING PAID DID LAW WRONG. YET THAT WAS JUST FINE WITH JUDGE MURPHY. See how my conflict of interest claim plays a huge role in my case. This is THE PERFECT EXAMPLE. McGeehee turned in a Respondent USD Form not a Petitioner USD Form.
I smoke pot. I have smoked pot my entire life. Since PTSD & the trigeminal neuralgia pain in my face I find pot is the ONLY thing that makes it feel a little bit better or makes my head feel better about all the pain issues I deal with every moment of every day, especially now that pain pills = BAD & doctors refuse to prescribe them even with many diagnosed pain issues.
& YES I LOVE POT.
Another point about weed that I have always considered pot a RELIGIOUS SACRAMENT, not that any one gives a flying fuck about MY RELIGIOUS RIGHTS.
My daughter always has known pot to be medicine. I knew pot would be a huge issue I would be forced to deal with post divorce so it was a hugely important issue but alas my life issues did not matter. I did not matter. I still don't matter.
OMG I AM BACK TO "DO YOU WANT ME TO SPEAK OR SHUT UP?"
The 'officers' were in the court, I believe, because just as Judge Murphy had both said & written before the trial, he was going to put me in jail & he did.
Yesterday September 30, 2018 the witch doctor (my elm street neighbor) told me there had been an accident in Lyons at 3 in the morning. One person walked away from the wreck the other drove through town with metal pieces falling from the vehicle. Another neighbor got pictures of the license plates and when the cop showed up from Linn County as Lyons has no police station he apparently said "I know who both parties are I'll get them in the morning" NO NO NO NO NO That is not right. So the drunk drivers who left the scene of the accident don't get a DUI? Linn County has a police problem.
**PRE EXISTING ILLNESS & CONDITION DISCRIMINATION
I had requested temporary support money for my Lyon's Garden Club Garden Party. Each month someone hosted and I chose September as it is my birthday month. Ex Ex had said, 'you should make lobster for your party'. Yes yes I should serve lobster to my ladies & one John. We planned to rent tables and chairs and I was going to have a paint area to have everyone paint a cement block for the garden. It had been planned all year.
Judge Murphy IGNORED my requests not just letting my ex ex humiliate yet again in front of my garden club but JUDGE MURPHY HUMILIATED ME IN FRONT OF MY GARDEN CLUB by not addressing my request. I ended up having to cancel as I didn't have the money for my party. It was too late to remove it from the local newspaper. I WAS HUMILIATED ALL OVER AGAIN BY THE COURT. Type about adding even more insult to injury.
I walk down ugh it was so hot so dumb move but out of curiousity I asked.
Honestly I am so glad I didn't have $3-5k to waste on an incompetent lawyer as I had done with Michael Feigin, the New York Trademark Lawyer who ripped me off for $3900, yet another Minutiae News story. I have since heard horror stories about lawyers simply not showing up for court after they had been paid. When I spoke to the witch doctor yesterday she repeated 'I know people who paid lawyers who never showed up for court'. I will always KNOW I did more legal work than any paid lawyer would have done on my behalf. If only I WAS A REAL LAWYER & UNDERSTOOD HOW LAW WORKS & WHAT LEGAL TERMS MEANT & well didn't have my personality, hair, tattoos or voice, I'd be dangerous, legally & none of those things should have mattered regardless.
Is this America the land of the CONSTITUTION & First Amendment FREE SPEECH & DUE PROCESS OR NOT?
Um apparently NOT in Linn County, Oregon.
update 7/10/19 8:27 pm linda also calls it the statesman urinal & the witch doctor also does MISstatesman journal as do other salem residents. being from los angeles I do not know the history of this newspaper, who by the way as yet to respond to my acusations of journalism malpractice if what the city typed is true nor from the city who also may be lying? we WILL find out at some point. or not?
When my tooth head pain got unbearable the witch doctor came out to the garden with a small bottle and said take this and put it on your tooth, do it here in the garden. I did. My mouth was on fire. I could only imagine it was like getting a mouthful of castor oil...horrible. It was clove oil and it burned the hell out of my mouth. She laughed and said 'that's how you know it's working'. Hence her nickname the 'witch doctor'.
I had contacted Salem as I thought because we got married in Salem we would divorce in Salem. Wrong. Salem Oregon refused to even send me a fee waiver form when I called to ask as I had no printer ink or money or transportation to get to Salem or to print the form. They refused to mail me the form. Are you fucking me?
AHHHHHH I only have 30 days to put my divorce case together AHHHHHH.
I finally decide I better not waste any time & get on this right away. I began to read the papers and immediately FREAK OUT when I read "Husband prays for a positive outcome" something similar anyway...HUSBAND PRAYS....THE MAN HAS NEVER PRAYED IN HIS LIFE that I'm aware of. WHAT BULL SHIT.
I was livid from the start & made court aware of how unfair this was and this was against the rules of separation of church of state....wait a second....I am NOT IN LOS ANGELES CALIFORNIA ANYMORE AM I?
I'm pretty sure the court and judge began hating me from that moment on. I later read that the term "prays for...." is an old obviously VERY outdated legal term. Now how the hell would I know that? I'm not a lawyer I was just forced to play one in reality.
I rosemary walker am currently wishing to sue america for $100 BILLION USD for FRAUD as I was sold a BILL OF RIGHTS that in reality are RIGHTS only if you can afford the lawyer BILL to enforce & defend your RIGHTS.
'Rosemary this is Jim Mcgeehee Um I'm sorry I haven't gotten back with to sooner but I've been tied up in trial prep & I'm going to be in trial for the next two days I won't be available AHH to do anything on you & UM your husbands case until Friday but It's my understanding from talking with you and from talking with him that that we've reached an agreement to settle this thing for $10K by way of a property settlement which Robert will pull out of his 401K as soon as the Judge signs the order, so I will be working on preparing that order on Friday AHH we'll need to figure out a way to get it signed by you by way of stipulation UMMMM & I'm sorry but I won't be available to the phone until maybe late Thursday afternoon or some time on Friday, so give me a call back if I don't hear from you I will as soon as I clear this trial I will call you again otherwise I'm going to go ahead and prepare the paperwork to do the general judgement of dissolution AHH and it's just going to include you know you keep your property and Robert keeps his property and then he pays you a $10K settlement uhh for property settlement so if that's not your understanding give me a call. thanks. bye.'
By miracle after Judge Murphy, (keep reading to WE HAVE COME NO WHERE AS WOMEN) , ordered me homeless forcing me to settle with the ex ex and after filing new applications with housing in every city, my name came up for Section 8 again. Unless you have been homeless because you simply can't afford the amount of rent you can't understand the fear of not having a roof over your head does to a person. IT IS ONE OF MY BIGGEST FEARS IN LIFE OTHER THAN ELEVATORS.
I was devastated when my daughter told me she too has dealt with this on numerous occasions. "YOU HAVE TO STOP IT RIGHT AWAY MOM & BLOCK THEM".
I thought I did & did.
I will be referring back to every thing Judge Murphy wrote in this letter as I continue.
** Today is October 4, 2018 yesterday all of US received an alert from the government without our permission or authorization & with no way to opt out. 'BIG BROTHER' NOT THE REALITY SHOW, I HEARD ABOUT WHEN I WAS YOUNG, WON.
He had left me standing at the counter of a hardware store as I watched him drive off. He was mad that I had asked if they knew a wood worker.
No text. The way most of US communicate these days. No "Honey, i'm driving around back" he just left me standing there. This after he told me "I hate you".
A panic feeling of 'what am I going to do?' "how would I get home" came over me, not to mention the total humiliation.
these stories have not yet been completed. I shall continue to work on them & add new ones as my writing muse strikes.
MCDONALDS, FRED MEYER & KENTUCKY FRIED CHICKEN SHOULD GIVE EVERY EMPLOYEE A $1000 4TH BONUS & SHAME PENALTY.
The witch doctor & I have similar pain issues including dental issues as she had a stroke & I got bells palsy what I learned during the divorce was trigeminal neuralgia so my face is crooked too now. I'm convinced that is why as I landed in Kill's garden after the divorce I landed in her garden when I moved to Lyons with ex ex. The bright side!
I also had the elevator accident. I just adore her so much. I think of her as my stand in mom now since mine is no longer living.
Nope 1.7 MILLION MCDONALDS WORKERS DO NOT GET HOLIDAY PAY OR TIME & A HALF IF THEY WORK ON THE HOLIDAY. The next day the witch doctor came into town from lyons so we went to Fred Meyer with 30,000 employees who all the deli employees yelled 'NO' although they are UNION. Apparently some employees who have been there more than six months get holiday pay. Next we went to Kentucky Fried Chicken (cause Trudy likes it) & I asked & It was as if I was asking some secret question no one was 'allowed' to answer about Federal Holiday Pay on a Federal Holiday. The answer was also 'NO' 90,000 KFC workers did not get paid holiday pay on the fourth of july our NATIONAL HOLIDAY.
In Salem Oregon as residents watched tv we were startled by an emergency alert that came through our cell phones that read there was a civil emergency in the area and residents were advised to 'prepare for action' scaring the hell out of everyone who received the alert at 8:29 pm May 29, 2018. Next at 9:00 pm residents received a WATER EMERGENCY FOR THE SALEM AREA alert from the city of Salem.
We really had no reason merge bank accounts. My disability has been automatically deposited into my account for years & changing that is a huge pain in the ass so it was easier to just keep our bank accounts separate. Ex Ex had made me an 'authorized user' on his credit card accounts that of course I also paid. This is yet another area where as women WE HAVE COME NO WHERE. Suddenly HIS CREDIT ACCOUNTS I WAS NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR APPEARED ON MY CREDIT REPORT. THEY STILL APPEAR ON MY CREDIT REPORT last I looked. WHY DID MY ACCOUNTS NOT APPEAR ON HIS CREDIT REPORT? WE WERE MARRIED? I of course paid whatever household bills that needed to be covered.
I have it on video. Good thing I have a great sense of humor because this entire thing was so far from funny. This is my real life.
The ONLY goal I had December 21, 2016 was TO GET MY EVIDENCE INTO THAT COURT ROOM & ON THE RECORD. Dr. Brofman, the elevator accident shrink, used to say 'If you can only get one thing done a day then you got one thing done'. I knew I had presented my case numbered #101-483 or 4 so well, I did not have to SAY ONE WORD. EVERY DOCUMENT REQUIRED TO DIVORCE ME WAS IN MY DIVORCE RESPONSE, what Judge Murphy called my "disorganized paperwork".
PRE MEDITATED JAILING.
There was an abused disabled restraining order but I couldn't get to Albany where the court was at bum fuck o' clock as there was no transportation from the small country town in Oregon where we lived. Honestly, why even bother having an "abused disabled restraining order" if the abused disabled people can't get to court to file it? Dahhhhhh.
Excuse me sir asshole his highness douchebag judge Murphy, I HAD PERMISSION TO NOT HAVE TO OBEY YOUR ORDERS TO ME TO "SIT DOWN SIT DOWN' & as if not every single one of US wouldn't be saying "liar" as the man who whacked you in the face is lying through his teeth as you are raising your hand, saying 'I object' only to have Judge Murphy scream at me 'JUST BE QUIET & SIT THERE UNTIL I TELL YOU TO SPEAK'. My turn NEVER came.
There was one lovely lady I shall never forget and I really need to find and take cookies to Brenda Wilson who stayed on the phone with me for an hour to make sure I had the papers I needed for my response. She was the only person who sent me a card when my mom died. Oh yes, my mom died in the middle of this divorce nightmare.....oh this gets crazy crazy. I still can't believe this happened to me in America. Brenda even asked her boss to change her title from ADA Coordinator as ADA did not mean Americans with Disability Act as apparently all Disabled people including myself thought it did.
UM Judge Murphy, If 'wife' is awarded half of what property X went up in value since 9.11.15 then how much is the amount wife should receive? RIGHT YOU CAN'T KNOW UNTIL YOU HAVE EVIDENCE OF THE VALUE OF PROPERTY X. Last I checked ex ex is NOT a real estate appraiser, he's an electrician & he provided no evidence to the then current value of our home not to mention you let McGeehee NOT provide me with the appraisal I requested as part of discovery for this exact reason. I determined I was entitled to at minimum half of what the house went up in value since the marriage according to Oregon law. I argue I should never have had to have left which was ex ex's promise and covenant to lucky & I prior to the marriage. Jerk. Plus HE LEFT.
With my limited understanding of court I knew EVIDENCE WAS IMPORTANT. WHY I HAD GATHERED ALL OF MY EVIDENCE I COULD. AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
This was what McGeehee & ex ex turned into court under oath as his monthly payments. There are ex ex's statements they gave me as discovery. Wow $25-$30 minimum payments are suddenly $100 & $200.
Judge Murphy never even looked. He removed me from the courtroom & finished the trial again denying me due process to even point ex ex's lies & discrepancies.
My 'disorganized mess' Judge Murphy called all my legal work was returned to me TWICE & NEVER COUNTED AT ALL AS EVIDENCE. I was ignored in my own life.
My evidence was not even required to prove these lies....McGeehee & ex ex provided the documents themselves.
I recorded the two hearings I appeared at by phone. I took the ipad & propped it up as I was on my cell phone in the living room. It's on my twitter in pieces. Every phone call to politicians who hung up on me or said "we're so sorry we can't help". Every law firm, school, group I could think to call or someone gave me a number to call who were no help at all. It's why I wrote "I am calling my twitter feed to the stand". Judge Murphy wrote or said I couldn't. WHAT? WHY?
I couldn't really hear what was being said in the court. Both phone hearings were fast & awful for me. I was denied everything then hung up on.
After the repair man left my apartment he sexually harassed me via text.
Exposing bull shit daily.
Now after he left the house I had no idea if he was ever coming back so I took all of his things & I moved them into his free boat he got & was in the garage. I accidentally dropped a box with his $28 Goodwill dishes in it and I sent him a picture that I was sorry it simply was too heavy and fell out of my hands that I have nerve damage & arthritis in. I did not break anything on purpose. I just put it all in his dumb free boat. I wasn't going to look at his shit. He was gone. Obviously I could not move his bedroom furniture. He had written "fuck you" in dust on his black dresser he later took his hand to erase. HIS DUST & FILTH remained hermetically sealed in what was at that point 'his room' as I had moved to another bedroom. No one rushed him as he took the safe & weapons to his truck. There was no argument. There was no thing more to say, type or write. He could have removed every single thing of his that day. He took what was important to him, the safe & weapons. He did leave a few behind I found later he had hidden in the garage. Cops said "yeah big scary knives". Assholes.
Next stop after the bank was dropping off my divorce response to ex ex's lawyers office McGeehee. What fucking assholes. Apparently Oregon lawyers do not understand "courier service". Someone drops off papers, you sign for them, they leave. Simple.
I have my "you received my divorce papers signature page" ready as I did for court, this should take 2 minutes while the witch doctor waited in the car outside.
Oh no it did not. The lady took the papers to a back office down the hall instead of signing my receipt form I pre made as I stood there like an idiot as he apparently went through every single one of my papers Judge Murphy referred to as my "disorganized paperwork" which was FAR FROM DISORGANIZED. IT WAS MY ENTIRE DIVORCE CASE PERFECTLY LAYED OUT WITH TEXT COPIES, PHOTOS, VIDEO & MATCHING CORRESPONDING DOCUMENTS.
I was literally chastised and bullied for the way I did law again, I AM NOT A LAWYER I WAS JUST FORCED TO PLAY ONE IN REALITY. I didn't take my phone in thinking I would literally be in & out. After 15 minutes I went out to the witch doctors car and grabbed my phone to again hit RECORD.
I believe i grabbed my phone after the lady in the striped shirt said "I know why he's divorcing you" as i'm saying "my neighbor is waiting in the car I just need you to sign the paper that you got my divorce response". So lady he told you EVERYTHING did he?
So professional. I'm now being abused by a dumb fuck who works in a shitty law office in bum fuck Oregon. Yeah fuck you lady. I did not say it although I was absolutely thinking it.
They too told me to mail papers next time. AHHHHHHHHHHHHH Again, had I have had the money to do so if their client hadn't have whacked me in the face then left me with no money no food or transportation I WOULD HAVE MAILED THE FUCKING PAPERS.
**We have come no where as women.....
After the divorce & landing in Kill's garden, my remarkable neighbor & friend who when I write I refer to as Kill because that's how my microphone spells her name if I talk into it because of my lisp, anyway her ex husband went to school with Judge Murphy, his words were "you probably reminded him of his wife". I'm still not sure how to interpret that?
I have a cat, another huge issue for renters & in my divorce. Rentals in Oregon charge up to $50 extra rent per month for a pet on top of pet deposits.
As Judge Murphy put me in jail for contempt as he violated my right to due process & finished my divorce trial without me even present in the court & with no presenting my numbered evidence per his instruction or being able to cross examine the ex ex & when I have never been in trouble my entire half century of life, I also feared I now possibly had a CRIMINAL RECORD. This was also causing me great anxiety & panic on top of I was still in crisis.
I still can not believe any of this happened to me in AMERICA.
Again, I was NEVER given the RIGHT to present my evidence per Judge Murphy's instructions I numbered 101-.....because I WAS DENIED THE RIGHT TO DUE PROCESS OR TO CROSS EXAMINE OR TO PRESENT MY CASE. THIS CASE.
The ex ex spell had finally been permanently broken & I was no longer afraid of him. I would have stayed & continued to beg him to go to counselling. I did not wish to be divorced. Plus he kept telling me he loved me on the phone until the very end. Very confusing.
Today is October 5, 2018. I am shuffling paragraphs around. Yesterday big brother won & today all women lost.
Judge Murphy hated me. He hated my high pitched upset PTSD hysterical voice, my written words, my new 'good witch' t-shirt I wore to court, to imagine what would have happened if I woke up that morning and was in my 'bad witch' t-shirt mood...I digress, my tattoos, I feel he hated everything about me. Judge Murphy hated I refused to sit as he ordered me to in court as I got claustrophobic in the little witness stand box. Ex ex knew to cover up his tattoos wearing long sleeves. I was not going to criminal court. I was getting divorced. I am not dressing in a certain way to please anyone but me & I am damn sure not 'yes sir' 'no sir'ing' anyone EVER. Just not my punk rock witchy female style. Some people just hate a pentacle or star a certain direction. I like all stars in all directions. I can't 'hide' my tattoos nor do I wish to.
I thought 'temporary support' was "temporary support" for stuff I needed as we went through the divorce process. Dahhhh, again I'm not a lawyer just forced to play one in reality. Turns outI was wrong that is not what 'temporary support' means legally. Again, how would I know, dahhhh i'm not a lawyer I was just forced to play one in reality by Judge Murphy.
Next I get a call that the owner of the company wants to apologize to me. Really? I am being humiliated with this again? He was very nice. He told me he had girls and wouldn't want this happening to them. He also told me he fired the guy & that he was married with kids. GREAT NOW THEY CREEPY MARRIED GUY WHO GOT FIRED BECAUSE I TOLD KNOWS WHERE I LIVE. The call left me even more traumatized and creeped out. I bought a camera that records everything inside my apartment & to date freak out thinking he's going to come back.
THIS WAS NOT A SHORT TERM RELATIONSHIP & WAS ONLY A SHORT TERM MARRIAGE BECAUSE HE GOT MEAN WHACKED ME IN THE FACE WITH A BIG HARD METAL PLUG.
My ex ex had also continuously tried to 'stick his dick in' me, so romantic, as he had done right after my hysterectomy's both of them & tell me he loved me as he was preparing to un love me. I would say 'let's get it over with' when I did have sex with him because I did not enjoy it anymore, I was having fibroid issues & it was painful. I not only joked with my girlfriends about it, I would tell him to go find an 18 year old to bonk 24/7. Ex ex would get mad at me for even saying it because "he loved me & he only wanted to be with me". Ok well me, did not enjoy nor want to fuck anymore and he knew years before he remarried I felt this way about sex. It started before hysterectomy #1. I ONLY did it because I loved him. Then he'd be mean & I'd just be mad with myself I did. I was INFURITATED about this after he finally told me he paid a lawyer to unlove me again, but for my prodding I'm not sure he was planning to.
On January 26, 2017, after both Judge Murphy & I had signed the settlement the day before, the one that I initialed the bottom corner of each page & I handed into court with the other Rosemary who drove me, that had zero 'QDRO TERMS' included, I was EMAILED not even properly 'SERVED' a new 6 page legal document 'QDRO TERMS' I NEVER AGREED TO. Guess who said I did, exactly Judge Murphy. Then Fidelity with the 'order' from Judge Murphy to something I NEVER AGREED to, stole my identity & opened a 401K investment account that was not even opened with a full $10K it was $9994 or some bull shit PLUS MINUS THE TAXES I NO CHOICE BUT TO PAY BECAUSE FIDELITY TOOK IT. So ex ex got a tax credit for screwing me, McGeehee got paid for his sub par legal work I requested sanctions for, & the Judge & court gets a kick back from the 'QDRO fees" as I was bent over and fucked in the ass not in a way I liked at all. I don't know how I am still standing & fighting,, other than it's what moms have no choice but to do. Keep moving forward as if no thing is standing in your way.
so it's americas day well 6 days ago now & I didn't want to turn the oven on so I decided I was going to take dollars I almost NEVER spend on fast food & go to mcdonalds to try the new tomato mozzarella chicken from another country or some bull shit.
ONE DAY MY (REPLACE PRINCE & PRINCESS WITH LAWYER) WILL COME
Ok. Ex ex continued to both threaten me & again, he had turned the tv off not once but twice again, knowing I would go ape shit. APE SHIT. & YES it did say in some bull shit court divorce papers that neither party is allowed to make any changes to current life stuff.....like TURNING THE TV OFF. TWICE. Court didn't care ex ex was continuing to mentally torture me.
I had been back in Oregon after driving back from Los Angeles with as much of my dead moms things as would fit for about 4-5 days. I had called & left messages for my doctor at the time because I NEEDED A NOTE I WAS IN NO CONDITION TO APPEAR IN DIVORCE COURT. Another person who could CARE LESS ABOUT ME OR THE SITUATION I WAS IN. A DOCTORS NOTE WOULD BE THE ONLY THING IF EVEN THAT JUDGE MURPHY WOULD CONSIDER. While I was pulled over on the side of the icy road hysterical & hyperventilating in a anxiety attack unable to drive without sliding I called the doctors office and SCREAMED AT THE TOP OF MY LUNGS "YOU'RE FUCKING FIRED".
Now call me crazy, but I thought REAL lawyers are not supposed to lie for their clients on forms & that papers turned into court are supposed to truthful & are under oath.....right? Because this document part of the only discovery I received because Judge Murphy let McGeehee not provide ALL the discovery I requested again, having looked up online "what do I ask for as discovery in an Oregon divorce?" and I indeed asked for every single thing I found.....MIND YOU MAILED IN TIME WITH PROOF OF MAILING.
He kept telling me to "fuck off" & "I don't care" to which I responded "I believe you". He'd say "shut up" so I did. Just as I had done when my daughter went through her "shut up mom" stage I stopped talking & began writing or typing everything on my note pad or on my phone.
He would scream "Just talk. You not talking is driving me crazy". OK do you want me to "shut up" or "talk"? One day he took dawn dish soap and tried to pour it all over my note pad where I wrote instead of spoke. He began clapping or making noise to get my attention as I would not even look at him.
I do not have to put up with being told to "fuck off", "shut up" & "I don't care". I just don't.
Salem had contaminated drinking water for over a month. Market water shelves were empty hours after the first alert. Salem representatives knew the drinking water was contaminated but decided not to inform us, Salem residents until after a long holiday weekend. They also failed to make sure once they did notify the public of the contamination to ensure & pre arrange water delivery to Salem so residents had plenty of bottled water.
To date many residents including myself have never received another alert to let us know the water is safe to drink.
I would not trust them even if they did.
At some point I wrote 'fine divorce. get me a social security & regualar lawyer' one law office told me I would require due to my disability. I have SPECIFIC issues FOR MY PARTICULAR LIFE every one may not have.
I got out of the truck with Lucky & walked home. I put water down. Got him settled in the bathroom then walked to Roths to get kitty litter, kitten food, a littler box. Kitten supplies. Ex ex is leaving messages 'i'll take you to get kitty litter'. I should have dumped him like a hot potato at that moment. omg I just remembered the other cat moment at the Brown street house he rented there was a gorgeous Siamese living under the house he hated & said he was going to poison. Fucking asshole. Temporary insanity my only explanation.
His texts read he was in his truck parked down the block from my apartment. I was also offended by his horrible grammar. I didn't even know how to respond. I've just been through being whacked in the face, my mom dying, spending a night in jail, moving, dealing with mean dude another minutiae story.
There was a sheriffs card left on the front door one day. I emailed the sheriff to return on a specific date thinking that is easier for them as again, we lived in the country. Apparently the police do not use their email. I was entirely not ready to receive divorce papers yet. I had just had a hysterectomy, I had been whacked in the face & now I'm getting divorced at a half century. Totally not what I ever imagined happening. The sheriff at some point calls and says "I can't make appointments" ok whatever just trying to make your life easier dude. The divorce papers arrive and the front page reads "IF YOU DO NOT FILE YOUR REPSONSE WITHIN 30 DAYS YOU LOSE YOUR DIVORCE" what? AHHHHHHHHHHHH.
This was super important because of ex ex's covenant to me he said on the stand he DID make to me except he did not tell the truth he added he promised I never had to move again 'while we were married'. Again, the promise came when I gave up section 8 housing to move to Lyons NOT months later when we remarried. I should have gotten it in writing in hindsight. I had determined not being a lawyer just being forced to play one in reality that I was entitled to 1/2 of what the house went up in value SINCE we were married which thanks to the house across the street that the new owners paid over the asking raised all the property values on Elm Street. Judge Murphy agreed and I was awarded 1/2 of what the house went up in value which the Judge based on zero evidence including the evidence I had in the courtroom that was never counted & only what he heard from ex ex with no evidence to back it up awarded me $2000 not the $20+K I should have been awarded based on my evidence & no appraisal.
Back to 'serving' my divorce response.....After dropping the papers off at court I waited in the garden around the court for the witch doctor to swing back to get me after her appointment. Next stop was Wells Fargo. This is where I guess I'll mix in the Wells Fargo holding my disability illegally. So my aunt sent me a cashiers check when I had to call to ask her for a loan. Again totally humiliating for me, as my ex husband had left me with no car no money & no food & I was going to buy a car from the local mechanic....omg another fucking nightmare story that also needs to be told here. All of this bull shit on top of bull shit I was already dealing with being a million percent in crisis mode....I'm not sure how I made it through all this. Type about "survivor". I hate that term but have to admit I AM INDEED A SURVIVOR.
Aunty D sent a cashiers check so I wouldn't have any issue cashing it. If you haven't picked up on it...if it can go wrong....it's going to when it comes to me. I'm used to it after a half century plus two of living to date.
I was not at my regular branch but I deposited most of it took some cash as I chit chatted with the teller as we waited for the manager to ok the deposit. He even gave me his card he was super nice. Again, I talk to everyone. The next day was the 3rd so bill paying day and when I went to pay the first one & my payment was rejected WHAT THE FUCK.
I was live on twitter on hold with Wells Fargo for over 2 hours maybe longer until THEY HUNG UP ON ME.
Apparently someone transposed the cashiers check number when they entered it into the main computer so it bounced. My aunt said "don't be ridiculous I gave them cash" I said I know Aunty D but..." she said "call my bank they know your uncle & I"
Their bank was lovely & not only wired the money to my account right away due to the error the manager aslo told me to send any fees my bank, Wells Fargo charged me to her & she would cover them for me. She also called that Zazil the manager at the branch in Albany. My bank was USELESS.
I did not send copies of the fees my asshole bank, Wells Fargo, charged me to my aunt & uncles lovely bank manager to cover. She went above & beyond the call of duty for me, unlike Wells Fargo did to it's disabled in crisis customer. Assholes.
My aunt sending me $1000 cost me the one in crisis she was trying to help $115 I think the total was.
Those assholes Wells Fargo charged me a $35 stop payment fee & $28 I think to receive the wire for the 100% NOT MY FAULT BANK ERROR & ILLEGALLY HELD MY DISABILITY. My bank hung up me, could care less that this was not my fault, charged me up the butt & broke the law.
The cashiers check leads into yet another nightmare bully situation I had to deal with during my crisis from Catch 22 an auto repair in Lyons. Another asshole who tried to screw me on the car I was going to buy from him that CAUGHT FIRE before the purchase was completed. Honestly, makes no difference whether you have something in writing if someone is a bully & wants to fuck you.
Why I have no issue with communicating only by email or text & I RECORD EVERYTHING so I have proof & NEVER USING MY VOICE again. Not that that has helped either. No one cares & without money lawyers are out of the question for poor people. So we get fucked over & over & over again.
The difference between the have & the have nots I have learned way too well over the years.
Today is October 7, 2018. The keyboard keeps freezing as I just want to get this story done & post my case. Today I spoke with Aunty D & Uncle H that totally bummed me out. My uncle said 'you told the Judge to fuck off" which I did not but even had I have used my free speech to tell Judge Murphy to fuck off DID THAT GIVE HIM THE RIGHT TO DENY MY DUE PROCESS? Um Uncle H you were the one who told me to tell the WLAPD to FUCK OFF when they were at moms gate when she died for the landlord tenant dispute. Then Kavanaugh came up and they feel what we witnessed was not a trial & he had every right to be a jerk while defending himself. So to wrap up the conversation with my aunt & uncle, KAVANAUGH DEFENDING HIS LIFE CAN BE OBNOXIOUS & EMOTIONAL IN COURT WHILE ME BEING A WOMAN WHO WAS LITERALLY FIGHTING FOR HER LIFE IN DIVORCE COURT DID NOT HAVE THAT LUXURY & MEN SHOULD GET DUE PROCESS BUT AS A WOMAN I DID NOT. BITCHEN. Aunty D said "rosemary I mean this is the ……" 'what most loving way you can say it....?" Aunty D "yes. you are the only one who cares".
Yep. No one cared the year plus that I was going through all this & maybe not one person will read this. But maybe just maybe ONE PERSON CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE & WHY CAN'T THAT ONE PERSON BE ME? Even I am a "we the people'.
As I couldn't believe what I was being told, I requested every thing I had been told to be put in writing & they did. There it is discrimination from Legal Aid in writing. So men, disabled men, men with kids, abused men with kids, older women, disabled women, anyone who identifies as something other than man or woman all discriminated against & denied legal representation. WHAT? SO IF YOU ARE POOR IN AMERICA YOU HAVE ZERO RIGHTS TO THE LAW? YEP. If you can't afford the lawyer BILL we the people have ZERO RIGHTS to LAW NOR JUSTICE.
My first call was to OMMP. "Hello I need to get a copy of all medical marijuana purchased on my OHA/OMMP card & MY CAREGIVERS (EX EX) card please." Their response, "We don't keep those records". HUH? WHY NOT?
Funny, I didn't have the $65 I believe dollars New York wanted to charge me for print outs they don't refund if "none found" and I still found this online showing one felony & within the first 30 days I had to put my divorce case together or lose as I learned law and during all the rest of the minutiae I was also dealing with at the time.....ughhhhhhhh. Gee, these such searches & research are CALLED LEGAL WORK I WAS NOT COMPENSATED FOR even though Judge Murphy forced me to do YET NEVER GAVE ME THE RIGHT TO DUE PROCESS TO PRESENT ANY OF THIS WHAT JUDGE MURPHY REFERRED TO AS MY 'DISORGANIZED PAPERWORK'. Again, I was anything but DISORGANIZED Judge Murphy. Dick.
This does NOT ADD UP. So what are we the people supposed to believe? The employee collecting samples at Detroit Lake in the video or the City of Salem Twitter answer? Now the witch doctor who still resides in Lyons who get their water from the same source did NOT HAVE CONTAMINATED WATER yet Lyons-Mehama get the water before it gets to Salem? How can this be?
To date the Lyons-Mehama Water District has ZERO information listed on their website.
There is HUGE MONEY attached to this issue along with PUBLIC SAFETY WE THE PEOPLE OF SALEM ALREADY KNOW OUR REPRESENTATIVES DO NOT CARE ABOUT AS LAST YEAR THEY DECIDED NOT TO TELL US RESIDENTS THE WATER WAS CONTAMINATED UNTIL AFTER THE HOLIDAY WEEKEND WHEN WE GOT THE BOTCHED ALERT THAT AGAIN, SCARED THE HELL OUT OF ALL OF US WHO GOT THEM.
I do not trust any thing I am being told at this point as Marion County also lied about there being no test for cyanotoxins which was also BULL SHIT.
I know what was I thinking re-marrying him? Temporary insanity? I think it was some sort of Stockholm syndrome. He was never mean to me except after he passed out & turned blue after we remarried. He did always say 'I'd never hurt you but I'd kill you'. He was my first love. He found me and came to rescue me at a time I needed to get out of LA. I felt I was going to die either in a car accident or an earthquake or elevator. I couldn't live in a city anymore since my elevator anxiety & PTSD. Salem has pretty much zero elevators. My kind of town now. There was in time between Charleen sending the abuse people & my being in the house with him but SOME ONE knew so if he killed me they'd know who did it. At some point he would go pick up my medicines for what I learned was trigeminal neuralgia. He came to watch Lucky and stay at the house when my mom died and drove me to the airport. Dahhhhh he knew I had no one to help. I am grateful he did, even though he changed the locks on all the doors saying some one broke in which is bull shit as the witch doctor has cameras that point at our house. One night a guy walked between our properties probably a trucker who had to pee and didn't know there was a pasture we decided but we clearly saw it on her cameras. It was probably my dead mom.
I've posed this question on twitter,
WHY IS IT POT SMOKING & CUSSING ARE ONLY REALLY LEGAL ON TELEVISION?
Funny Leah, Judge Murphy's assistant called them "exhibits" even though the judge NEVER COUNTED NOR ALLOWED ME TO PRESENT THEM IN COURT NOR TO CROSS EXAMINE MY LYING EX EX & HIS LAWYER, INSTEAD HE FINISHED THE FARCE OF A "TRIAL" WITHOUT ME EVEN PRESENT IN COURT.
The whack in the face was far more upsetting but what happened in court was far far worse. MY CIVIL RIGHTS WERE VIOLATED & yes I documented my puke.
Yesterday as I helped my neighbor paint her daughters bedroom purple I played the 43 minutes I have from the trial. She also felt as I broke down in tears as the men all just kept talking over my crying & Judge Murphy was yelling at me "Mrs Decola stop interrupting" & "be quiet". I WAS CRYING. I was in pain. I was having an anxiety panic attack & my mother had just died. I had been quiet other than my few interruptions. I was too afraid to say a word as I sat whimpering. I really want to get the court transcripts to see if the court reporter types "wife was crying" as "husband and McGeehee continued to speak over her tears". ?
I decided I had to DO SOME THING as I am in the STAND UP FOR MYSELF & OTHERS time of my life & WE HAVE TO PUT AN END TO ABUSE OF EVERY KIND. I am FED THE FUCK UP. Right me the fuck too over & over & over & over, not that any one cares.
Our home was also my registered grow site. Where was I going to practice growing my medical marijuana if I was forced to leave my home Judge Murphy? Again, me or my life was not even a concern to Judge Murphy. He did not even care enough to LOOK OR COUNT MY EVIDENCE THIS EVIDENCE INSTEAD HE DENIED ME THE RIGHT TO DUE PROCESS & TOOK AWAY MY FREEDOM. I WILL NEVER GET OVER WHAT HE DID. NEVER.
WHEN YOUR RIGHTS ARE VIOLATED.....YOU NEVER EVER GET OVER IT & I WILL NOT REST UNTIL I GET JUSTICE & ENSURE WHAT HAPPENED TO ME IN COURT NEVER HAPPENS TO ANOTHER AMERICAN EVER AGAIN.
If you follow my twitter you have seen the videos. I can't figure out how to upload them on my site otherwise they too would appear here.
Today is July 2nd, 2019 and it is a full year since Salem Oregon had contaminated water from HAB's or HAZARDOUS ALGEA BLOOMS that are caused from the rising temperatures of the earth. Once again the algea has bloomed as summer heats up and cyanotoxins have again been found in our water.
I wonder how many other many other women this man had done this to. Had he raped someone?
This is now another man whose bad & illegal behavior is not documented by police because no one in position to protect me like NW Senior & Disability or Housing. Again I am left to wonder why even bother to have a form to report abuse issues to housing if they do nothing about the reports?
Putting my response together was almost impossible with no money. I took change to print out my texts from the ex and make copies of paperwork, photos, bank statements & any other evidence I had to prove my case. I only had one zip thumb storage thingie for my video evidence so I sealed it in an envelope I turned in with my response so court had it and could open it in court and make a copy for his lawyer. My neighbor the witch doctor had to go to Albany so she drove me to turn in my response.
There was no reliable transportation from Lyons to anywhere. There were only two Carts buses so you could maybe get somewhere but you could get stranded if you missed the only other bus to get home. Not to mention I am broken & the buses take 3 hours for a half hour trip.
I could not get to the court.
I'm from Los Angeles and the ex ex had isolated me in the boonies. To clarify by isolating I mean he is so anti-social & I am a social butterfly who talks to everyone. It drove him crazy. I loved living in the country with my garden & neighbor steer. When I first moved from LA he would get nuts when I spoke to my LA friends male or female. I no longer spoke to anyone from my old life. I wrote an old friend who told me I did the most epic friend mic drop ever by telling him to "f off". My memory is really not that great anymore. Why I love having tiny handheld computers to record life. My mom was a photographer & I modeled when I was little in Australia so my documenting my life is something that as been a constant. I at that point knew 2 people in Oregon, my old neighbors from Silverton & now my new lovely neighbors the other Rosemary & the witch doctor. Oh and Erin who brought me bird seed when I had none knowing how upset it made me the ex who bought the bird feeders & bird seed for the then refused to buy either bird or human food for me. He could afford $474 new carpet, $200 for new seats, fiberglass paint, $50 registration for the free boat & breakfast money the morning he told me he unloved me or any other time HE wanted to buy anything. Ex ex's bank statements the only discovery I received proved the amounts & dates for everything I was going to present in court.
I argue there is not a man, woman or whatever you identify as person that would be in any condition to pretend to be a lawyer to divorce themselves in their own divorce trial within a month of a parent dying.
This was part of Judge Murphy's "Ruling".....hmmmmm 'ruling' 'submit' 'obey' I'm 'getting' how courts dominate women very clearly now..... anyway it was emailed to me while I was locked up in jail. HE FINISHED THE TRIAL WITHOUT ME EVEN IN THE COURT & WITHOUT ME CROSS EXAMING OR PRESENTING MY EVIDENCE. EXACTLY WHAT THE RED HAIR TALL SLIM JAIL LADY WHO FINALLY 'CHECKED ME IN' 100% COULD & WOULD NOT HAPPEN. I TOLD HER HE WOULD THAT HE HATED ME. YES THERE WAS EVIDENCE I WAS JUST DENIED THE RIGHT TO PRESENT IT OR TO CROSS EXAMINE WHAT EX EX & HIS INCOMPETENT LAWYER STATED OR TURNED IN.
I ASS-umed Judge Murphy would make them give me the discovery I requested DAHHHHHHHHH I'M NOT A LAWYER JUST FORCED TO PLAY ONE IN REALITY DURING MY OWN VERY COMPLICATED DIVORCE. I had requested sanctions against McGeehee for NOT GIVING IT TO ME before Judge Murphy said during the hearing I did not "compel discovery" like I was supposed to fucking know what the hell that meant. No thing about "compel discovery" came up during my searches for "what do I ask for in an Oregon divorce as discovery".
fuck guns. ban bullets. hate filled murdering assholes & guns don't kill people ARMOR & METAL PIERCING BULLETS KILL PEOPLE
I vividly remember screaming 'make sure all my numbered evidence is put into the record' so it was IN THE RECORD.
I was told criminals have the right to a lawyer because their freedom can be taken away when I asked why CRIMINALS have the right to a lawyer when I did not. WELL MY FREEDOM WAS TAKEN AWAY IN FAMILY DIVORCE COURT. NO PERSON SHOULD EVER HAVE TO APPEAR IN ANY COURT OF LAW WITHOUT A LAWYER ESPECIALLY DISABLED PEOPLE. PERIOD. THIS MUST BECOME A LAW.
Um I taught my daughter & grandkids to read & write with my handwriting. I feel all requests I made were pretty clear & understandable had anyone bothered to read them. Ex ex would refuse to read my writings saying he couldn't understand my writing....as Judge Murphy didn't.
I wrote after Judge Murphy wrote he would put me in jail if I 'spoke out' during court.....ok I AM NOT GOING TO SPEAK THEN. His response was 'if you don't speak you lose'.
DO YOU HAVE ANY IDEA HOW HARD IT IS TO GET WEED SHOPS TO SEND YOU A PRINT OUT OF WEED PURCHASED ON YOUR OMMP/OHA FRAUD CARD IN TIME FOR YOUR DIVORCE TRIAL?
After Judge Murphy sent his October 13th letter where he lied, defamed & discriminated against me I was very upset. Judge Murhy PRE JUDGED. That was what I hear CNN legal heads & politicians say they are NOT supposed to do. I discussed it with my Elm Street Legal Advisors, the witch doctor, her loverly husband Gary who has left our world & the other neighbors as I took this very seriously. They too agreed what he did was wrong & he shouldn't be on my case. I looked up what I could do online. I found I could file with Judicial Fitness & Disability. What? Why would it be called Fitness & Disability because the Judge is unable to do the case or this is an organization for Judge's with injuries while performing Judge duties? Whatever. I sent the letter I felt was evidence was enough as apparently you fill out the form & wait. They have a secret meeting. Send you a letter. WAIT A MINUTE. WHAT IF THEY ARE DEAD WRONG? AHHHHHHHHH Apparently. Tough shit Rosemary.
Today is October 2, 2018. I just watched the Kanye West interview with Harvey Levin on TMZ and thank goodness the keyboard is working so I can type how I 100% agree with Kanye. I too am a PUNK. I WILL WEAR WHATEVER I WANT TO WEAR. I WILL SAY WHAT I NEED TO SAY IN THE VOICE THAT I HAVE. I WILL THINK HOW I THINK. AS AN AMERICAN THIS IS ALL OF OUR RIGHTS ANOTHER IS THE RIGHT TO DUE PROCESS & NOT TO BE THROWN IN JAIL FOR NON CRIMES DURING DIVORCE COURT. AGAIN, I WAS TOLD WHEN I ASKED "WHY DO CRIMINALS HAVE THE RIGHT TO FREE LAWYERS WHEN I DO NOT?" I WAS TOLD BECAUSE YOUR RIGHTS CAN BE TAKEN AWAY. IF THAT IS TRUE THEN NOT ONE SINGLE ONE OF US SHOULD BE IN A COURT OF LAW WITHOUT LEGAL REPRESENTATION AS MY FREEDOM WAS TAKEN AWAY DURING FAMILY DIVORCE COURT.
Lucky & I had been at the house since January. He bought that giant dog carrier to move him in. Mind you I had sold my car after my daughter graduated high school when I ran away from both of them. I didn't want to drive anymore so I couldn't get to his house IF HE DIDN'T WANT TO DRIVE US THERE OR DRIVE US BACK TO SILVERTON.
In March 2015, I got notice that it was annual inspection & housing renewal time. We discussed at length if I moved to the country with him I'd be giving up my housing so another person in need would get my spot.....he wanted lucky & I to move with him so we did after much thought & consideration & taking our family I also loved into consideration. I was a grandma now. We had not even discussed marriage at this point but he promised "lucky & I would never ever have to move ever again" knowing I had terrible home insecurity as I had been homeless with my daughter in LA when I just couldn't afford $1660 a month rent any longer.
Sexual harassment via text was a totally new one for me at my age. I tried to joke it off & put it to an end right away.
As I do, I discussed it with those closest to me. At first I was a little flattered then that turned to humiliation, fear & anger that men feel it is appropriate to talk or type to women this way.
Today is 7/7/19. I just read Mississippi is experiencing HAB's in many cities. I have made updates throughout this story.
Both phone hearings I did not understand ended in me yelling that none of it was fair.
I transcribed this from one of my recordings, as I can't figure out how to upload video on my free website builder. I think it was made before you could upload video.
Judge Murphy : "This is a pre trial conference (something, extended maybe, conference) to make sure that everybody's ready to procede?"
Me: "No he hasn't sent me any of the discovery that I've requested, I don't have it. I have some of it but not all of it."
McGeehee: 'uh that's the main reason we are here the discovery request is incredible for a one year marriage"
Me: voice more high pitched and upset "It is not a one year marriage it's a 16 it's 33 year relationship I beg your pardon, it's ten this time. Not that simple."
Judge Murphy : 'Well um the question is was a motion to compel discovery filed by the deadline?'
Me: Not understanding that requesting discovery was not "compel" discovery is said "YEEES".
I wanted & needed EVERY THING I requested that I had looked up online especially the appraisal of our home & my admissions questions. I only had his bank statements to match them with events I would present.
This is a $400 OHA/OMMP 'PATIENT' FRAUD CARD.
So they literally drag me out a secret back court door behind and to the left of the Judge as he faced me then we were outside & they were throwing into a van. What the fuck? Where the fuck are they taking me? At that point my phone I MADE SURE TO HAVE as I recorded as much as I could. I have 43 or 46 minutes of the farce trial. I managed to get my phone to dial the last number which omg was Aunty D. We had been talking because my other Aunt has been ill since mom died plus the loan to be clear she never said I had to pay back even though I paid her back. I had borrowed $500 for storage at some other point in my life I also paid back. I asked for half of it back as part of the divorce. It was ex ex's fault I needed it and we were still technically. married. Anyway, she was freaked out. Me "Aunty D he put me in jail for contempt and I wasn't even that bad" Aunty D "Well what the hell do you want me to do?" "No thing I just wanted someone to know what happened to me & my phone dialed you" was pretty much how it went. She may have yelled at me I should have been quiet. She probably did. I was just glad SOME ONE knew what happened to me. OMG LUCKY. WHO WILL FEED MY LUCKY CAT?
I was 100% discriminated against becasuse of my disability, that Judge Murphy had put in writing, I feel I was also religiously discriminated against & because I was a woman & a medical marijuana user, on top of being denied my right to due process. HE FINISHED THE TRIAL WITHOUT ME EVEN PRESENT IN COURT & BEFORE I HAD MY TURN TO CROSS EXAMINE OR PRESENT MY EVIDENCE. MY NUMBERED EVIDENCE YOU SEE HERE.
I couldn't afford a therapist. Because I was mid divorce I technically did not qualify for any 'benefits'. I was infuriated when ex ex said he was seeing a therapist because he was so upset. HE WAS SO UPSET? Funny I was the worst actress playing a lawyer compared to ex ex playing a 'nice guy' in court. Ex ex took that trophy.
The insinuation I was somehow deliberately & intentionally 'misbehaving' is insulting. I may be a pain in the ass but not intentionally. I was literally fighting for MY LIFE THE ONLY PERSON IN THE ENTIRE WORLD FIGHTING FOR MY LIFE. I was jailed because Judge Murphy interpreted my PTSD & GRIEF for misbehavior that IS NOT A FUCKING CRIME, even if I had been. I was crying in court, MY MOM WAS DEAD.
I hit call back the 310 number first. It was the police telling me "We're very sorry but we found your mother dead inside her apartment". It is kind of like what you see in the movies except for the mental wave that hits you like a tsunami. I had bought a $150 round trip ticket. I was leaving in a few days to go take her to the doctor and use my Walmart card to get her food. I called the emergency number she gave me because she didn't have a phone. "Hello Pam, this is rosemary Ellen's daughter. I have you as an emergency number. Tell my mom I booked a flight & i'll be there x date to x date. Tell her to make whatever appointments she needs for those days". I later learned when I met Pam she never told my mom I was on the way. My mom didn't know I was coming that I knew she needed me & I was on the way. That morning it wasn't raining in Lyons Oregon yet there was a giant MOMBOW as I was given the news she was dead. I had bought mom an emergency phone from Walmart I didn't care if she didn't want one any more since the fall SHE TOLD ME ABOUT. There had been several others. She died two days after the fall on the WLA streets that she was walking to work on because her car was having mechanical issues. The hospital had sent mom away because the x-ray machine was broken. Her doctor said she went into a diabetic coma & he was sorry because she shouldn't have died. I think the fall that gave her a black eye one of the neighbors told me because she had said 'ellen, let me take a photo of your eye' but my mom told her 'no'. killed my mom. As no one can argue with me.....no one would dare argue with my mom. Mom died exactly how she wanted to. She would say "I want to be carried from my apartment in a box or from my desk at my office in a box". Apartment won.
Young people, IT IS VERY EASY TO GET MARRIED. IT IS EXTREMELY DIFFICULT TO GET UN MARRIED. DO NOT TAKE IT LIGHTLY.
My 2015 birthday also became our wedding announcement party.
Right after we got married ex ex passed out and turned BLUE on our living room floor. OMG I HAD TO GIVE HIM MOUTH TO MOUTH AFTER CALLING 911. I couldn't believe this was fucking happening. I got him 'awake' again as the ambulance pulled up. Ex ex denies this even happened. When my mom died and he came to watch Lucky & then changed the locks on the house while I was in Los Angeles dealing with my dead mom he drove me to Portland as my daughter was arriving that weekend to visit because she had been in LA for work. He told us both as he showed pictures of him in the hospital that his heart had stopped. RIGHT THERE WAS SOMETHING WRONG WITH HIM.
NEWS TOO small TO FAKE.
I began buying domains 20 years ago so long ago they came with free websites & email which is why I have my sites today.
Legal Referral told me they give you 3 referrals. They are $35 each. As I had already spoken to lawyers who wanted $5K IF they do the type of law referral gives you I NEEDED TO KNOW DO THEY STEAL MY $35 BEFORE OR AFTER THEY TELL ME IT WILL COST $5000 TO BEGIN? I finally asked her to put it in writing please. What a scam. Especially when $35 may as well be a zillion if you don't have it. At some point nearing the trial my friends from Silverton INSISTED even though I knew they'd just take my money I didn't have extra that THEIR lawyer was going to help me so I paid the stupid however much it cost to be told "I'm sorry I can't help you without $$$. I knew better but did it to appease them.
Even though my evidence was in court twice, it was never counted, recorded or was considered.
I forgot. While I was at the court there were windows. I went to the restraining order window to attempt to turn in the forms I had filled out while the witch doctor had driven me to Albany. The two ladies at the window repeated for my camera when I asked them to, that they would not accept it because it wasn't between bum fuck & bum fuck o'clock even though I told them I had no transportation and my neighbor had driven me.
The witch doctor thought it was hilarious that I had posted it all on twitter and their kids would see their parents on the video....whatever this is my REAL LIFE. There they are!
Again, like 'duress', 'due process', 'discovery', 'the Americans with Disability Act' 'discrimination' "taxation without representation" all may as well not even be legal terms as no one cared about any of them as my civil rights were stomped on.
This was the equivalent of the current issue of immigrant toddlers being forced to represent themselves in immigration court, ridiculous.
Part of what I found to look up for discovery was an appraisal of the property. McGeehee asked ex ex on the stand "how much did you pay for the house" ex ex responded "136K" this was false, it was $136,900. Ex ex guestimated the house was valued at $144K with zero evidence to back it up. I at least had a Zestimate. Mind you my neighbors house sold for WELL OVER the zestimate.
Ex ex paid for my 'patient' weed FRAUD card. Why I requested the fees for the renewal each year not that I will EVER PAY BE DEFAUDED & DENIED PATIENT RIGHTS BY OREGON EVER AGAIN & weed money as a divorce requirement.
Today is Halloween 2018 since the Harvey Levin interview Kanye did and said new things I 100% did NOT agree with and am glad he is out of politics.
How is it fair when no matter what you do or don't do YOU LOSE? Dahhhh there must be a way for deaf & mute people to appear in court, right? Why have modern technology where we all can now SEE OUR PHONECALLS? HELLO. IT IS CALLED SKYPE & FACE TIME JUDGE MURPHY.
I found it hilarious everyone gets so mad at me when I stop talking. It really drives people more crazy than my terrible high pitched voice.
Six months later he sealed his promise & covenant he made by re-marrying me again on September 11, 2015 to make it a good day not a bad memory. That didn't work out well.
Yet another form & organization that may as well not even be a 'thing' as it meant absolutely jack squat, no thing, zip, zero to Judge Murphy. Why did I even bother yet again to even get the dumb disability form, fill it out & have it signed & approved from court if NO ONE CARED I HAD IT?
Where was my Americans with Disabilities advocate or representative in court with me to ensure I did not go to jail because Judge Murphy was screaming orders at me that I had a court pre-approved per instruction form stating I DID NOT HAVE TO OBEY?
There never should have even been a trial. Ex ex & his lawyer were telling me they were sending settlement papers, that they NEVER sent. I needed this fucking divorce at the moment like I needed yet another hole in my head right now. I'm in Los Angeles being forced to attempt to settle this dumb marriage while even more hysterical & more in crisis dealing with the fiasco that was my dead mom, alone. Ex ex knew he had to give me money DAHHHHHH where was I going? how was I getting there? with what? dahhhhh.
the people charged with our healthcare MUST NOT BE ALLOWED TO DISCRIMINATE THEN THREATEN US for their violations of our rights to NOT BE DISCRIMINATED AGAINST FOR PRE EXISTING ILLNESSES & CONDITIONS & especially not MORE THAN ONCE & IN FRONT OF THE AGENCY CHARGED WITH PROTECTING ME BEING DEAMED DISABLED I READ WAS A 'PROTECTED CLASS OF AMERICAN CITIZEN'? SO WHAT PROTECTED CLASS PROTECTION?
Look I have a mouth like a sewer & during my crisis I was awful. In the beginning when I was in a complete panic I used my terrible high pitched frustrated voice in a not nice way. When I settled down I wrote & sent an apology letter to every one I felt I was rude to. I felt terrible. I was just so frustrated there was no help for ME.
I had been looking on craigslist the entire year during the divorce. I was in a panic. Rents were so high. There was NO WAY on $780 a month disability I could afford to rent anywhere in Salem or surrounding areas. Most rents started at $725. There was one complex that advertised $575 & I was NOT living in that complex. I pondered being forced into a roommate situation at a half century. No way.
One of my first legal arguments was ex ex took our married money to hire his lawyer which makes his lawyer half my lawyer, right?
Can all of US say "conflict of interest"? Again, Judge Murphy OSB member & editor for the OSB magazine & he advertised he spoke at events, possibly OSB events that McGeehee attended? McGeehee was an OSB member yet I had NO OSB representation. How this is not a conflict of interest for Judges to be doing 'outside' work is beyond my imagination. So if law firms have him speak that is not a conflict for them to appear before him? How is this fair? Right it is NOT FAIR.
I'm a great wife & I admit I am a pain in the ass. I got up and made him coffee & breakie every morning at 4 am before he left for work. I made him lunch if he wanted one. I loved his kids & our grandkids. Yes, I made sure everyone had gifts on holidays & birthdays. I loved having the entire family over for all occasions even no occasion & I wanted a regular sunday dinner ex ex DID NOT. I wanted those grand babies ALL THE TIME. When we moved to Elm Street the lovely neighbors invited us to a 'welcome BBQ' that he refused to go to. At the last minute after me begging him for the week. He suffered through meeting our lovely neighbors. The witch doctor & the other Rosemary & I just had my birthday lunch a few weeks ago. Again, I don't know what I would have done without them driving me to the market every other week with them or schlepping me to the doctor and dentist that I was given the third degree for as if going to a doctor and dentist was some sort of crime I had committed the way Judge Murphy questioned me about during the hearing 'well how did you get to the doctor?" I HAD TO ASK MY LOVELY ELDERLY NEIGHBORS TO DRIVE ME JUDGE AND IT WAS HUMILIATING BECAUSE THERE WAS NO TRANSPORTATION & MY EX EX LEFT ME STRANDED IN THE COUNTRY. There was no Uber or Lyft in Lyons at that point. We finally got it in Salem last year. When he asked me to do anything....I did.
Next I found the new to me GODADDY APPRAISAL TOOL or FRAUD TOOL.
The GODADDY appraisal tool informed me my domains were now valued at $97,380. This is due to my daily tweeting I have done for the last 2.5 years, something I can do being broken, tweet.
OOOOOOO I can get a business loan! wrong again. DOMAINS ARE NOT CONSIDERED BUSINESS ASSETS so my credit is ruined & I am poor even though GODADDY says I had domains valued at $97,380 which was & is total bull shit & fraud. GODADDY also sells US privacy (along with all the other pyramid scam items they now BILL for) & I can't afford privacy, so they disclose all my private information.
There is no word to accurately describe how PAINFUL this condition is. I noticed I walk around saying 'fuck' under my breath I am in so much pain daily. Add the most severe shooting pain through your head and face ahhhhhhh.
In March I saw a video story on the statesman journal the witch doctor calls the "statesman urinal" which I think is hilarious I digress.....the link to the video is http://www.statesmanjournal.com/story/news/2019/03/29/detroit-lake-algae-bloom-oregon-state-university/3291790002/
Charleen then called Linn county abuse who sent Madalyn Stone to our home. I asked "what if I show you the video?" she said "we'll go arrest him". How does that help, he pays the bills?
His spidey senses must have been going off the day Madalyn knocked on my door totally unannounced as he left work early & came home while she was in our home. Funny I think I even mentioned I wouldn't be surprised if that happened as HE KNEW WHAT HE DID WAS WRONG & I WAS UPSET & HE WAS WORRIED. He shows up, Madalyn runs out & I was left there with him having to explain who she was & why she was in our home. I finally just said "Charleen called the abuse people on my behalf" he responded "GO AHEAD CALL HER BACK THEN YOU'LL GET FUCKING NOTHING" as all good narcissistic abusers do, ex ex repeated as I was put into a position of having to 'negotiate' with him after Judge Murphy 'ruled' me homeless after finishing the trial without me present after he threw me in the klink. Narcissistic abuser is a term I learned from the text therapist KVA. After she told me 'just move on' after the sexual harasser in my apartment, I was done with her. Wow when I looked it up there should have been a picture of him. I had asked him in words, writing & type over & over & over to go to counselling. His response was "no" & "fuck you".
I am a half century plus two year old woman now. I have dealt with and experienced both sexual abuse & domestic violence throughout my entire life. I WILL NOT TOLERATE IT EVER FUCKING AGAIN.
There was a day when ex ex pulled out a big scary black knife I had no idea he even had while I was sitting on the bed smoking a joint and flung it near my head as he popped those plastic air filled packing things they use for shipping. It was very unnerving. Ex ex was just acting weird. I know I should have known better in hindsight about the entire relationship. I thought he had changed through out all the years since marriage one. There's THE moment I really should have known I will type about but I didn't listen to myself. I loved him & our family.
I was bruised head to toe from the 3 or 4 huge dudes & one lady Judge Murphy ordered & had waiting to pounce on me upon Judge Murphy 'contempting' me. They punched me in the side, kicked then sat on me. They broke my new very expensive prescription glasses. Again I am a broken disabled woman. I have a previous broken back, neck & knee. I can barely walk see or use my hands most days yet alone fight back 4 or 5 giant officers. I was bruised & in even more pain than my usual excruciating pain for weeks. Mentally I shall NEVER be the same. I THOUGHT I WAS GOING TO DIE IN LINN COUNTY JAIL & NO ONE WOULD EVEN HAVE KNOWN.
After I grabbed my phone to hit RECORD as the said 'it was an accident' 'I was playing'. Not funny funny as we are currently mid the age of the pussy grabbers & I have heard so many women telling their stories and accidents & playing seem to be constants in all of our stories, anyway he FINALLY left the house for work. Thank goodness he was gone. Nope not yet. He no longer had the plug on the cord but he was not done coming at me & trying to get me to buy his bull shit that he was 'playing' with me.
if you follow my twitter @ficoshutdown181 I use as my diary pretty much you have seen the videos I can't figure out how to post on here & my phone charging cord broke so my cell is dead so I am using the old fashioned phone & had to copy phone numbers after going to jail I recommend to every one...WRITE DOWN NUMBERS OF IMPORTANT PEOPLE BECUASE IF YOUR PHONE GETS TAKEN YOU WILL NOT REMEMBER ANYONES PHONE NUMBER AS IT IS NOT LONGER A REQUIRED SKILL whew.....I digress......
Just like Judge Murphy had no way to determine what 1/2 of the value of our house was worth since we married with no evidence as to the current value of the house he like myself could not AGREE TO SOME THING THAT WAS NOT INCLUDED IN WHAT WE BOTH SIGNED & I INITIALED IN THE SETTLEMENT AGREEMENT BECAUSE THE 'TERMS' WERE NOT INCLUDED & NOT PROVIDED UNTIL THE NEXT DAY VIA EMAIL WHICH IS NOT PROPER 'SERVICE'.
A police office had been shot at the time on the news. He left a widow of two months. Does she have less rights to 'the benefits of marriage' as Judge Judy says because they were only married two months before his death? NO MARRIAGE IS MARRIAGE. LENGTH IS IRRELEVANT.
Judge murphy lying again & saying we both signed & agreed to something that was not included in the settlement resulted in IDENTITY THEFT. A Fidelity 401k account, being disabled I would never be able to open was opened in my name with no authorization, no signature, no date of birth, no mothers maiden name just because a lying judge who defamed & discriminated against me, pre judged, who took away my freedom & violated my civil rights said so, NOT WHAT ACTUALLY HAPPENED OR WAS SIGNED & all because McGeehee the real paid lawyer fucked up by not including the 'terms' where they were supposed to be which is in the settlement agreement. Oh, let's not forget the Linn County court gets a percentage of all QDRO's they stick on poor & disabled people with no legal representation because how the hell would we know what the fuck a QDRO is to begin with?
Dahhhhhh again, how could judge murphy or I agree to something as Judge Judy says repeatidly "IF IT IS NOT INCLUDED IN THE FOUR CORNERS OF THE PAGE IT DOES NOT EXIST'. See I am an excellent pretend lawyer I learned from Judge Judy.
I had plenty of evidence that this had been a long term not short term relationship even though what difference? Marriage is marriage a day or a lifetime, especially at 50. Again, as Judge Judy says....
He was my first ex husband I met at 16 on Hollywood boulevard & married at 18. He found me online all these years later & told me & told me he was divorced which was a lie and came & moved my daughter & I to Oregon. Asshole promised my mom to take care of us. I should have known better but at the time it was the right decision. LA sucked. I felt like I was going to die if I didn't get out of there & I thought it was best for my daughter.
One of the first things he bought me was a 4-5 carat uncut diamond. I liked the idea of a big chunky ring. It would become part of my divorce evidence that this was not a short term relationship and the diamond wasn't made into a ring until years later & we married years after that.
Judge Judy says "Marriage is for the benefits of marriage, I'm not here to sort out pots and pans". At 50 I was not getting married again for pots & pans but for all the BENEFITS OF MARRIAGE. NO ONE FORCED HIM TO REMARRY ME. I EXPECTED TO BE MARRIED FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE AS I DID EACH TIME I WAS MARRIED. We could have stayed "eating & occasionally fucking" & or whatever. Since the fibroid issue I was over sex. It wasn't fun it was painful. Not that he cared. He knew this years before we re-married.
FAIR & FUCKING EQUITABLE ARE YOU FUCKING FUCKING ME? EX EX $7524 A MONTH 'WIFE' $780 PER MONTH DISABILITY.
I called a neighbor in a panic expecting national guard with guns outside. What the hell is a 'civil alert'? I kept thinking 'if it's a police action, the alert would read 'police action stay inside and away from windows', right? anyway she told me it was a water issue.
The first day ex ex went back to work after we got married 9.11.15 he added me TO EVERY THING. All his insurance, we had an appointment with a life insurance lady who came to the house. HE DID IT. IT WAS ONE OF THE REASONS HE MARRIED ME SO I WOULD HAVE GREAT HEALTH INSURANCE & IF ANYTHING HAPPENED TO HIM I WOULD BE OK. I couldn't go add myself at HIS work. BENEFITS OF MARRIAGE. WHY WE GOT MARRIED JUDGE MURPHY. BENEFITS. NOT ABUSE. ABUSE IS NOT A BENEFIT.
He had left his checkbook. I knew he'd need that. I soon got a call from his daughter that "daddy needs some things". Being a half century old woman I knew what "daddy needed" and put his work t-shirts, pants, toiletries & his checkbook at the front door. She only took the checkbook. I was extremely upset that he not just was communicating with his other ex wife in an inappropriate way but that he dragged his kids into our divorce. Look his ex wife & I got along fine after 9 years. However she did not know what issues I was having with him. She was not living in our home. I used to play a game on his phone and I saw this text. It really upset me. Not they I cared at that point. I was never a girlfriend or wife that snooped through their spouses things. As I was in my crisis and putting my divorce case together I went through EVERY THING. The gloves were off. Later he had his son contact me. A son that had not said BOO to me. I can't even explain how DEVASTING it is to even THINK about my grandkids I MISS SO TERRIBLY I have to just keep them blocked from my memory or like now I turn to a hyperventilating pile of mush with water running from her eyes.
His checkbook was all he wanted and or needed. Again, he took what was important to him....the safe & weapons.
This was a 9-10 relationship longer if you included our first nightmare marriage I obviously had blacked out of my memory only to have it come back in spurts as he did certain things. Again, like Judge Judy says "MARRIAGE IS FOR THE BENEFITS OF MARRIAGE" it was especially for those reasons for me at a half century. Ex Ex wanted me to have those benefits as he wooed me into marrying him again.....until he whacked me in face. All proven in MY NUMBERED EVIDENCE & with what little discovery McGeehee gave me that Judge Murphy let him get away with. This was so stupid. Again, like forcing toddlers to represent themselves in immigration court.
Yeah right, like I have any way to enforce what ex ex text about covering my taxes. I had Section 2.6.1 added after ex ex turned the tv off for the second time during the divorce, that if he sold the house or took out a loan I'd get half but his lawyer wrote it that if it was over $160K. NO WHERE IN THIS DOCUMENT I LITERALLY INITITALED THE BOTTOM CORNER OF EACH PAGE I AGREED TO IN BLACK SHARPIE SO NO ONE NOT JUDGE MURPHY, NOT EX EX NOT MCGEEHEE COULD SAY I AGREED TO ANY THING I DID NOT AGREE TO. YEP THAT IS EXACTLY WHAT HAPPENED ANY WAY.
Today is 3/29/2019. At 9:30 am I called Ellen Rosenblum's office again, & the woman who answers the phone told me "we can't help you" before even hearing out all my issues, then told me 'never to call this number again' then hung up on me. OMG I AM NOT YELLING MY VOICE IS JUST UPSET & HIGH PITCHED WHEN PEOPLE DO NOT LISTEN AND TELL ME TO DO THE THINGS I HAVE ALREADY DONE SEVERAL TIMES NOW & EVERYONE CAN SEE THE RESULTS I HAVE GOTTEN. ZERO. So I requested she put EXACTLY WHAT SHE JUST TOLD ME IN WRITING FOR MY COLLECTION SO WHEN MY PRINCE, PRINCESS OR HOWEVER THEY IDENTIFY LAWYER COMES I HAVE RECORDS OF WHAT EVERY SINGLE OFFICE TOLD ME. 'WE'RE SO SORRY WE CAN'T HELP YOU. HIRE A LAWYER'. WELL DAHHHHHH IF I HAD LAWYER MONEY OR ANY REPRESENTATION OBVIOUSLY NONE OF THIS WOULD HAVE FUCKING HAPPENED TO BEGIN WITH. AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
WHAT DO ANY OF US DO WHEN THE SYSTEMS FAILS US & OUR VOICES ARE LITERALLY SILENCED?
Court returned most of my divorce response saying it was 'evidence'. Yes, exactly, it was my divorce response. It had every single item needed to divorce me including the proof of disability Judge Murphy lied putting in WRITING that I never provided it. UM YES I DID JUDGE YOU SENT IT BACK TO ME. YOU JUDGE MURPHY ARE THE LIAR & NOT CREDIBLE. NOT ME.
Yesterday September 28th, 2018 I found this online. I was overcome with emotion. I've been in tears on & off since. I called the witch doctor hysterically in tears to tell her the news.
Thank goodness as this man who treated me as less than human, who denied every motion & request I made, who lied, defamed & discriminated against me in writing, who PRE-JUDGED me exactly what a judge is NOT SUPPOSED TO DO, a man who forced me back to Oregon from Los Angeles in the middle of my mom dying & my having to deal with her affairs causing me to lose all my moms beautiful antique furniture & collectibles I CAN NEVER GET BACK because I was forced to leave LA or lose my divorce, a man who threw me in jail when I have NEVER BEEN IN TROUBLE IN MY HALF CENTURY PLUS TWO OF LIFE & SOMETHING I WILL NEVER EVER EVER GET OVER AS LONG AS I LIVE AS IT FUNDAMENTILY CHANGED ME AS NOTHING IN MY ENTIRE LIFE TO DATE HAS CHANGED ME, a man who denied me my RIGHT TO DUE PROCESS WOULD NEVER BE ABLE TO DO THIS TO ANOTHER PERSON AGAIN IN AMERICAN DIVORCE COURT...…..PHEW......it's been a VERY EMOTIONAL since yesterday for me.
WELL DAHHH OF COURSE I OBJECTED., NOT THAT IT MATTERED. THE "TERMS OF THE QDRO" WERE SUPPOSED TO BE INCLUDED WITHIN THE SETTLEMENT DOCUMENT
BOTH JUDGE MURPHY & I SIGNED THE DAY BEFORE. HAD THE SETTLEMENT DOCUMENTS READ ANYWHERE "WIFE IS AWARDED $10K THAT WE WILL OPEN A FIDELITY 401K INVESTMENT ACCOUNT WITHOUT HER PERMISSION NOR HER SIGNATURE, DOB OR MOTHERS
MAIDEN NAME THAT WIFE SHALL BE TAXED ON" DAHHHHHH I NEVER WOULD HAVE INITIALED THE BOTTOM CORNERS OF EACH PAGE
I AGREED TO NOR SIGNED & DROPPED IT OFF AT COURT WITH THE OTHER ROSEMARY.
I have requested access to the city Fed Ex receipts from where the Detroit lake samples are sent from to whatever labs are being used or Salem can just walk me to the lab & through out entire water testing & safety system. right? The City sent me a link to a BILL.
I also only agreed to move if there was HBO & SHOWTIME my only form of entertainment I have.....for years. In fact I was the one there to let the dish guy in.
I refused to even consider the move until tv was on. It would be the utility he later turned off twice during the divorce knowing how ape shit upset it would make me. My tv bill was part of my divorce 'requirements' never addressed. No one cared he was still mentally abusing me through the entire divorce process.
The apartment I love in a neighborhood I love with the view THAT I LOVE THAT I WAS FORCED TO JUMP THROUGH SO MANY GOD DAMN HOOPS FOR & MORE STRESS & ANXIETY ABOUT A ROOF OVER MY HEAD has been tainted because of this experience in my own home ever since. There is no feeling safe ever, it is another case of the have & the have nots. If I could afford 'privacy' then you wouldn't have my address. Another future minutiae story.
Ex ex continued to buy Lucky supplies & carry them up the stairs BEFORE we were married. Looking back writing this it was GUILT for the day he told me 'dump the cat'. The cat supply purchases were in my evidence in the form of discovery ex ex's lawyer McGeehee did give me. Gee thank you master thank you for the tiny bit of discovery of the 'incredible discovery' I requested in time with proof of mailing within the 30 days Judge Murphy said. So unfair. I digress.
No matter what I tried legally I was denied. Judge Murphy ignored most every single request or motion I sat up night after night writing out after researching what laws I felt applied to my case & looking up legal stuff. I had to use my disability money to send papers to both court & McGeehee with proof of delivery. Judge Murphy denied my requests as he chastised me for not 'doing law right" again, I AM NOT A LAWYER JUST FORCED TO PRETEND TO BE ONE IN REALITY. At some point Judge Murphy wrote that I should stop sending so many papers. AHHHHHHHHHH I WAS FIGHTING FOR MY LIFE. I begged for lawyer money from anywhere I didn't care I needed a lawyer. Being disabled I have very particular very complicated issues. One of the first lawyers I called told me I would also need a Social Security Lawyer due to my disability. AHHHHHHHH 2 Lawyers? I was doing the best I could as I looked up how to divorce myself online. I had no transportation to get to any stupid law 'clinics' usually held at weird hours every other week or at night, where there were no real lawyers. I heard "we're not lawyers we can't give any legal advice" more times than I care to remember.
So when did GODADDY become trademark enforcemark? After they sold me the domains they now say can't be sold? Just like someone who sells a car that can't be registered is FRAUD so is this. THIS IS FRAUD ON POOR PEOPLE WHO "COME UP WITH A GREAT IDEA" & buy a website just like the GODADDY ads say.
At this point had the abuse department had a rule that anytime they are called by anyone, that all people involved in the home were required to go to mandatory counselling maybe the cycle of abuse would end.
This story has become a much more important story about FAKE NEWS & why I started minutiae news to begin with. I COULD NO LONGER TRUST ANY THING I READ OR HEAR & UNTIL I RESEARCH & SEE FOR MYSELF I WILL NOT BELIEVE ANY ONE & THIS IS EXACTLY WHY. The City of Salem has responded to a tweet & acused the Statesman Journal of redating a video & re posting a video from a year ago. So where is the lab Salem? Simple question to answer. Is it IN SALEM? At U of O? in Hillsboro? at the lab on 12th Street? So far no response & I can't wait to hear what bull shit answer they give us.
WHAT THE FUCK? What is the point of the 30 days to request discovery if the other side just writes nope not giving it to you? Why is it even a 'legal thing'?
Look I have a terrible high pitched annoying voice. When upset and in crisis it's even louder and more terrible & even my voice is even more awful on tape, however even MY VOICE has a right to be heard in America I thought. The other Rosemary says "Rosemary it's the voice god gave you"....yeah it's the voice whoever gave me JOEL IN SENATOR MERKLEYS OFFICE. YOU DO NOT GET TO HANG UP ON IT BECAUSE YOU DON'T LIKE IT. JERK. I digresss…..
Knowing how people react to me & knowing I now feel the need to record every thing & get every thing in writing to PROVE WHAT HAPPENED not that it helped in this case.....I began recording when I got into the court house. OMG I couldn't help but to laugh and make fun because I couldn't believe what happened.
I was given so much grief. At some point they told me "next time mail your papers" gee assholes had I have had the money to do that I WOULD HAVE. Next they called the sheriffs to the office, one was the one who had been at my house! It was so absurd. The divorce papers read 'YOU HAVE TO RESPOND WITHIN 30 DAYS OR YOU LOSE YOUR DIVORCE" I HAD TO TAKE THE PAPERS TO THE COURT......DAHHHHHHHHHH.
I had to show proof of income so I had my Social Security Statement that showed my proof of Disability amount court asked for and I got the fee waiver.
This is important Judge Murphy did EXACTLY WHAT JUDGES ARE NOT SUPPOSED TO DO HE PRE-JUDGED & before I had even set foot in his court. Judge Murphy lied, defamed & discriminated against me IN WRITING.
There were four or five sheriffs in the court room as I arrived after being forced to drive on a day that the news stated 'if you don't have to be out on the road don't be'. There were black ice conditions. I had emailed court to postpone. I didn't want to risk my life driving to a divorce thank you. DENIED. It was so icy then became so foggy. I couldn't see 5 feet in front of me. I was in a rental car driving from Lyons to Albany on a road I had never driven before. Hello I lived in Los Angeles since 1976. I am not an experienced ice & snow driver.
Again, I can drive but I don't anymore. I prefer NOT to get a DUI I can't afford & I prefer being stoned & being driven, better yet never leaving my home.
I couldn't decide whether to laugh or cry when the other girl FINALLY brought me the signed paper so I could get the fuck out of there after over a half hour of standing like an idiot in awful pain at this point & as the poor witch doctor was sitting in her car waiting for me also in pain.
I got through the humiliation & ridiculous hoops of the Section 8 process AGAIN & moved into my new post divorce apartment I love.
I contacted Legal Aid, Referral & the Oregon State Bar for legal assistance. The OSB wrote that I was too poor to pay the modest means amount & Legal Aid discriminates unless you hit the Legal Aid Jackpot which is an abused female with a custody case, which I was not. 'If you choose to represent yourself......NO NO NO NO NO I DO NOT CHOOSE TO REPRESENT MYSELF THE OPPOSITE. Being a lawyer is well above my paygrade.
I had made my "we got your divorce response" forms to have them signed KNOWING I WANTED PROOF OF EVERYTHING.
Lord Belshe as I nick named him said "because it's me i'm going to accept your divorce papers". OMG I got down on my knees and said "thank you sir, thank you so much for accepting my divorce papers in the place where it read I had to return my divorce response within 30 days or I lost my divorce", to the dumb Linn County courthouse.
Dahhhhhh of course 'wife' turned in the USD form. Court returned it, TWICE. I also had our home budgets I kept. Honestly can you even believe what I went through that I have written so far. I know I'm jumping around but it's a lot & I'm not a professional writer or graphic artist so I'm doing the best I can with what I have to tell my divorce story & present my evidence Judge Murphy states I did not 'submit'. Interesting SUBMIT. Yes I did SUBMIT the paperwork NO I WOULD NEVER SUBMIT TO HIM the ex ex OR HIM McGeehee OR HIM Judge Murphy. I AM WOMAN HEAR ME ROAR. I SUBMIT TO NO ONE, unless I am in a submissive mood.